The One Two Three’s of Negotiation
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The One Two Three’s of Negotiation; I will NEVER understand why people get mad about lowballs. I may need $5 one day I’m pretty poor! 😩 What’s low to me may not be low to you. Hopefully this will help for my closet at least. Seems simple to me. 1. Make an offer-we all like offers! 2. Wait for my response. (As the seller never decline-if it’s too low counter with your lowest!Also from what I know about the new algorithm, not countering pushes you backward)
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loopholer
@angelapangburn thought this might cheer you up . I know @bookworm28 & @noescape2009 will laugh too!
bookworm28
@loopholer excellent!! 🤣
loopholer
@angelapangburn good times
loopholer
@homopuppy 😂😂😂
homopuppy
@loopholer it’s so true! And if you really don’t want offers and the price is firm there is a simple fix - put that in your listing. I’ve never understood the flat out declines. 🤷🏻♀️
loopholer
@homopuppy and if it’s your final then counter your final I just hate bits that complain about no sales and then that
homopuppy
@loopholer 🙌🏻
loopholer
@homopuppy I don’t know why somebody would complain about somebody giving them money for used clothes I don’t see how that’s insulting but that’s what I’ve been told
loopholer
@homopuppy I’ve been blocked from over 100 people because of it
homopuppy
@loopholer what, really? I’ve been blocked once and found it so odd but I’m pretty new to Poshmark. It makes no sense to me!
loopholer
@homopuppy talking/tagging in listings. I’ve been here almost 3 years. And mentor people and fund them deals. Even do a song about it called,”I dint know who you are!”
mrsjareth82
@loopholer I always remind myself of a rule I made up when hit w/ a "lowball" offer:i call it the DTIP. Don't Take It Personally. They're just clothes, clothes I dont wear/don't want. People are struggling, its smart to try to get more bang for ur buck within reason. That said, dont offer less than half of what a tag is, that just tends to tick peeps off.
loopholer
@mrsjareth82 thank you so much! Not everyone has been in the position to NEED $5-10 possibly and that can make all the difference. I may need the $5 or not be able to spare it. That’s why we negotiate! Lovely speaking w you
mrsjareth82
@loopholer yes, I feel theres a lot of people, most very young on this platform, some not though, who've just never realized the extent of their own privilege, & can be quite haughty. Some also are unaware of the basic rules of resale, & want to get what they paid for something, which is just naiïvity. Lovely speaking w/ you as well! Keep on being yo awesome self!
loopholer
@mrsjareth82 🍭
datpiff99
💯
amaandaa
@angelapangburn Hi girl, I’m Amanda. Any friend of loops is a friend of mine. Nice to meet you and I’m with you 100 on the lowball thing. I hate to seem so nonchalant but I’m just trying to get through the day with the situation what it is.
amaandaa
@angelapangburn I know girl, we had planned on doing a few bins trips and never got around to it. I just wish I had went to see her the last time I was up there and we talked. Going from communicating each day to this is just more than my heart can take.
naturalmuscles
@noescape Now I really feel like crying she so everywhere on my listings I’m not sure why came into her closet I guess I needed a little comfort since I apparently need all new friends at this particular time stuff like that just makes me miss her more Erica
moonthreads
What if you decline an offer from the seller? Does it do anything to the algorithm?
irisheyesbtq
@naturalmuscles I'm just now seeing this and wondering what happened? I came across a share in memory group and wanted to participate Nd ended up here but I'm lost.
Can you help me? Melissa
stephanielove1
Share for share?
tlc22
🙌🙌 seriously! Thank you for saying this! The ones who get mad don’t seem to understand negotiation. If low balls really ruin your day that’s sad lol
chasemorgan1121
@loopholer yes yes yes, someone finally said it 💓 it
chasemorgan1121
@loopholer I love the posts about "lowball offers" where they threaten to block those who send them, I'm like ok cool I would not want to buy from someone who even acts like that, this is a place to get deals right, Im Like you, what's low to them may not be low to me, I saw one the other day where the girl said she will not sale to a newbie, u must have been a Posher for x AMT of time and have more than one review, and no negative comments in reviews otherwise blocked
chasemorgan1121
@loopholer right on
staceylagirl
@loopholer been here since dec 2012 Poshers dont get this consignment not retail. This app completely sucks. Even the comment here dont offer less than 1/2. Offer whatever F u want. Ppl are dumb
staceylagirl
@loopholer shared! xo 😘
naturalmuscles
@staceylagirl Rocksan passed away in April 😥😓her closet should Be shut down I don’t know why it’s not
awnesha
@naturalmuscles I'm so said seeing this about her. I've been offline more than not lately. I've been thinking about her alot and came here to say hello and saw this devastating news
naturalmuscles
@awnesha Yes dear it’s been a probably coming up on a year since Roxanne passed away I actually was texting with her the night that she passed I still think about it all the time especially now with the holidays it extremely sucks and I guess her boyfriend has her phone and has not put this back on vacation status which it should be kind of breaks my heart every time I’m on here and see her on my listings it’s been rough especially for her best friend Erica I’m not sure if you know her
lottew
@loopholer this is Genius 😂 the pictures and your Sense of humor made my day :)
myvanityreplay
Makes sense to me 😊❤✌
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles awh I just was sharing her items I saw her on another’s listings. I do t know her at all. But it’s sad. What happened? Are you talking about @loopholer passed away? I’m so sorry to all of you who were her friends on here. She seems super cool from what I read. So sorry. 😊💕🌷 xoxo
naturalmuscles
@lolas_boutique_ Yes Roxanne Biggerstaf @loopholer She is the one who passed away in January of last year hard to believe it’s been that long. Her friend Erica on here who is noescape2009 And I think she has another account was her best friend for life I did have many conversations with Roxanne we texted a lot I knew her since I had been on Poshmark I actually spoke with her the day before she passed away as far as what happened
naturalmuscles
@lolas_boutique_ I can only say it was a unfortunate miss fortune with medication that’s about as detailed as I really want to get into it on here it wasn’t good and very very sad if you would’ve talk to me a year ago about this I’m not sure if I could’ve really talked about it I was very devastated still and she still in my phone I don’t have the heart to take her out she was a very lovely person very nice girl i miss her she was a true friend
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles awh I’m so sorry sweetheart! So so sorry. After reading comments she’s posted I can tell she was a wonderful person and friend. Very funny too. I’m so sorry for you and noescape2009 I did speak to her briefly. I shouldnt have ask what happened I’m sorry. I guess seeing her so young and vibrant i was curious. I think it was wrong of me to ask that after think8ng about it. I’m sorry.
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles I will have you and Erica in my prayers. I’m so so sorry about her. I know her young son must be destroyed as well. It’s so sad. Take care and remember the fun loving memories. We will always have memories to hold tight. Xoxo 😊💕🌷
naturalmuscles
@lolas_boutique_ Oh no dear not at all anything bad to ask what happened? Not in anyway I just didn’t really wanna say anything on here most people know why I’d rather you ask Erica that myself I just didn’t wanna put it out here on Poshmark like that just out of respect for Roxanne she was 39 getting ready to turn 40 April of last year just for months short of turning 40 just gone far too soon
naturalmuscles
@lolas_boutique_She was one of the funniest people I have ever come across in my life some of her text messages used to crack me up so badly or stuff she would say on Poshmark and she was such a great seller here on Poshmark she would always crack me up with something that she would have to say she had been through a lot and I know she’s at peace there are still certain things that remind me of her I can’t imagine being Erica Her name is Erica Corbitt actually I know that’s one of her user names
naturalmuscles
@lolas_boutique_ You can always look her up if you like I can’t imagine being her she was friends with Roxanne for wow I don’t know 2530 years I have two best friends that have been in my life for over 30 years apiece if I lost either one of them they would probably have to commit me for a while because I wouldn’t make it without them somethings are just too much of a loss thank you for your kind words
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles oh no I totally understand what you mean absolutely! No problem at all. I just started thinking about it and thought it was probably not the best thing for me to do bc you never know what a situation is about. I read a lot of her comments lol they were funny. One was from you and her and you were like.....what!? Lol. I could tell you were laughing with her about what she had said. I don’t even know her but would have loved to have met her on here.
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles I tend to get close to people very fast! I trust and get hurt. I actually have no friends anymore. Honestly I can say it’s not bc I’m me we just all grew separate ways and I just stayed close to my immediate family only. I got hurt too many times by friends I gave up. But would love to have that ...just one good girl friend. My 25 and 19 yr old kids still live at home with us and I have 4 small grandchildren that are also here and I would go crazy without them.
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles My daughter has dysautonomia and hasn’t moved out yet it got really bad but is at bay now for the most part. It is still there but she’s not passing out and all the stuff that goes with it as much. She felt rushed to have kids and started very young but is the most AMAZING mommy ever! She’s not went to one party or club since having these kids 9 years ago . Oldest is 9. Youngest is 1. Not that clubs are bad. She just has a 100% focus on them.
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles we all just have each other. My extended family is so jealous they talk and are nasty to us. My mom was the black sheep so it got passed down. All I have in my mind is my aunt and uncle so we are thinking of just moving to Florida near the beach and Disney starting some kind of business and just having fun. I’m 45 still until Monday!!!! Husband is 55 so we want to take them down there and just live a fun life.
lolas_boutique_
@naturalmuscles not sure if our plans will work. Sorry for telling you my whole life story! You can tell I get lonely lol. I’m so sorry for your friend and have you all in my thoughts and prayers. I will be sharing your closet and you are now my new pff lol! 💕🌷🥰
candy258
Hi 🙋🏽♀️Happy Poshing‼️🛍
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